The consultation may be the first time they have said any of this aloud
A prospective client is often describing their situation to a professional for the first time, and to somebody they are not sure they can trust.
Many people in this position have avoided asking anybody, out of fear of creating a record, out of embarrassment, or because they were warned about people who take money and do nothing.
That makes the first conversation an unusual mix. It has to establish enough facts to assess the matter, while being reassuring enough that the person is willing to give them.
Structure helps more than warmth alone. Explaining at the start what the meeting will cover, that the discussion is confidential, and what happens afterward reduces the sense of being interrogated.
Being straightforward about difficulty is part of what earns trust here. Somebody who has been told by three people that their case is easy will remember the firm that explained why it is not.
The honest no matters too. Telling somebody plainly that there is no viable path, if that is the assessment, is better practice and it also builds the reputation that produces referrals in a community that talks.